How to Create an Outdoor Space That Feels Like a Mini Getaway Every Night of the Week

By Sheila Alston

Sure, summer doesn’t last forever—but the memories you make in your outdoor space? Those can last a lifetime. The thing is, most outdoor decorating tips feel a little basic. “Hang some string lights.” “Set a cute table.” “Light a citronella candle.” Not bad ideas—but they don’t exactly help you create a space that feels special or personal.

If you want to create a space that your family can’t wait to gather in (and that your guests will talk about long after the last glass of wine), you need a space that engages all five senses—and makes people feel something.

Create a “Why We’re Here” Moment

Place a small chalkboard or table card with a quote, family value, or question of the night.

Example: “What was your favorite childhood summer meal?” or “Tonight’s theme: slow down & savor.”

Light for Storytelling, Not Just Seeing

Use tiered lighting: overhead (string lights), table-level (lanterns or candles), and floor glow (solar pathway lights or up-lighting under trees).

Pro tip: amber-toned lights foster warmth and conversation; avoid cool-toned LEDs.

Set the Table with Texture and Intention

Mix soft elements (woven placemats, cloth napkins) with raw ones (wood, stone, terracotta).

Include an unexpected “centering object”—a bowl of lemons, a foraged branch, or shells from a recent beach trip.

Use Sound to Set the Scene

Curate an outdoor playlist that matches the meal’s vibe (think French café, bossa nova, acoustic bluegrass).

Bonus: add a small water fountain or wind chimes for ambient layering.

Create Zones: One to Eat, One to Linger

Set up a “linger lounge” 5–10 feet from the dining table with floor cushions, string lights, and a low table for dessert or post-meal drinks.

Kids love it too—just add outdoor games or storytelling props.

You don’t need a magazine-worthy patio to create magic—you just need intention. When you design with all five senses and a little storytelling in mind, even a simple backyard becomes the backdrop for summer moments your family will remember for years.

By Sheila Alston

Founder of HealthyHOME Media Host of Wellness Real Estate TV and the WellLIFE PODCAST