Feng Shui Essentials: Modern Tips For Harmonious Living
By, Dee Oujiri
If you are single and eager to connect with that perfect new partner, here are a few things you can do in your bedroom to make space and let the Universe know you are ready to call them in!
Everything you do needs to be done with intention – the intention of strengthening a relationship or calling in someone new. I will guide you through these intentional practices, showing you not only how to manifest love but also how to create a home that resonates with harmony and wellness.
To Manifest Someone New
In order to allow your perfect partner to come into your life, it’s important to trust and know that this person is coming. Much like when a woman is pregnant, she knows the baby is coming, so she makes preparations in your home and gets excited for the new arrival. Preparing your home for your new love lets the universe know you are ready to allow them in.
Place your bed in a central location so both sides are accessible; don’t push the bed up against a wall. How is that new partner supposed to get in and out of bed? Making room for your perfect partner is the first step.
Another simple adjustment is to ensure that you have two-night stands of equal height and weight. When you have only one nightstand, it sends your subconscious mind a message that it is just you, sleeping single.
Clean out a drawer and make some room in your closet. Doing this opens up space for someone new.
Place two pieces of Rose Quartz on your nightstand. This stone is known to open the heart chakra to all forms of love, and its high-energy properties make it effective. Rose Quartz brings warmth and love into everyday life, calms those around it, and even reduces stress levels.
Take a look at your artwork that is hanging throughout the home and remove any pieces that show an image of a single individual. Add art in your bedroom that shows twos, two animals, two individuals, two trees, or anything in twos. Please avoid threes unless you are looking for that.
Do you currently have a single bed? Consider upgrading to a larger one as it will provide space for new opportunities. This is a symbolic gesture, similar to the artwork on display.
To Strengthen Your Current Relationships
Bring in fresh flowers to your home every week and display some in the bedroom. Roses are a wonderful addition, and they scream romance!
Spice up the mood in the bedroom by adding soft items with a fire element, like velvet blankets and faux fur pillows to create a cozy and warm environment. Accent lighting can also be used to create a cozy mood.
The recommendation is to avoid positioning mirrors in front of the end of the bed as it might attract a third party into a relationship, leading to affairs.
In the practice of feng shui, symbolism is of utmost importance. Take your bed, for instance – is it stable or in need of repair? This seemingly trivial detail could impact your relationships. If you're buying a new bed, consider opting for a solid frame. I recommend fabric-covered headboards, as they can enhance feelings of romance.
Don't display pictures of your children in the bedroom to keep the focus on your relationship with your partner.
Feng Shui is an incredible tool and is so much more than just moving your furniture around. I hope these tips help you call in the one!
By, Dee Oujiri
Feng Shui Strategist &
Holistic Realtor
Dee Oujiri is a multifaceted professional who combines expertise in Feng Shui, Reiki, and luxury real estate. With a focus on holistic wellness, Dee empowers individuals to create harmonious living spaces that support physical, emotional, and mental well-being. Join Dee on a transformative journey to a fulfilling life by harmonizing your home and nurturing your soul. Follow @dee.oujiri on Instagram or @fengshuibydee on Facebook for more on Feng Shui and home harmony.